Do you know those people who whatever they do, they seem to be perfect at it? Things go well for them, whatever they touch transforms into success. Have you ever thought why them but not you? A big part of this is how you see yourself, what your level of confidence is, where your self-esteem is.
Being confident and have healthy self-image can take a lot of work. The important fact is how you really see yourself and what you think you are capable of doing. The way how you feel can be a result of your past or way you have been treated throughout your life. When I was a little girl, my self-image was poor behind your imagination. We never had money, my mum was alcoholic and on the top of that, my dad was an abusive loser. Everybody in the neighborhood known us and I felt judged by people. What I have realized is that maybe as a child you cannot really change your situation, but as an adult, at least, an adult who is capable of making some money and has the legal right to decide for himself, yes you can. I decide to live with my own rules. I didn’t want to feel that I am less than others. Of course, what I am telling you about me is in category SO WHAT! but I wanted you to have an idea what I mean.
The problem with poor self-imagine is that it affects all your future. It kills your potential, capability of doing anything you want. It makes you feel miserable, destroys your excitement and enthusiasm. If you want respect and love from others, you have to first start with yourself. It’s not going to happen overnight, but with practice and dedication, you can do it as anything else. If you read my blog, you have noticed that I always set time frame for everything, any goal you may have. Why am I doing it? I am certain that If you keep track about your own personal accomplishments, you can clearly see your progress. This gives you strength and believe you can do it.
Take pen and paper and write down everything you would be. It is completely up to you what your soul desires. Maybe you want to be stronger, braver, have more courage, be more beautiful than you already are, feel more passion, be more disciplined, dedicated. If any of those qualities is what you want, say it to yourself. “I am strong, I never give up, I have unlimited courage, I can freaking do it!’’
Nobody in this world can tell you what you can or cannot be. Nobody should have this power over you. If your self-imagine is poor, or you feel that there is something wrong with your confidence, with a way how you feel about yourself, make a change. I give you 30 days, just 30 days. Every morning, 2 minutes of your time in front of the mirror, build yourself up.
Because you are not where you want to be right now, doesn’t mean you cannot get there at all. Make a decision. Quit excuses, forever! There is nothing more annoying than a person who always complain but don’t do anything about themselves.
How you feel is one of the most important things in your life. And how you feel depends on how you see yourself. I know you can do it! I challenge you to do it every morning for 30 days. You will probably not believe it for the first few days. That is ok, you just have to lie yourself a bit. What will end up happening is that you push this information from conscious into your subconscious mind and that is where magic starts. Days become better, you will feel more enthusiasm, happiness, because when you look into the mirror, reflection you have seen, it is not going to be there anymore. You see something better, something that is worth of everything, not just anything, you will see real you.
Please, share this information with others. You have no idea how many people need that. Maybe you accidentally bumped into my blog and just read this. Maybe you do not like the way I write, that is ok. As long as I made you think a little about yourself and how important you are, my mission is done.
My name is Silvia and I teach people how to turn their pain into power. My personal struggle inspired me to help people in living a powerful and fulfilling life which they create and control. You can find out more of my story by visiting my personal page www.silviaturon.com. Also, there is a FREE gift waiting for you. See you there!