Yes, I know. You are probably looking at the title and saying to yourself, what the hell does it mean? Let me explain. First, I just want to let you know, that the purpose of this my writing here is just to simply share my experience and point of view and also to help people see the good side of life and gain an understanding that we have just one life. No two, no three, just one. And it is up to us to make it work. I know I know, you have probably heard this a long time ago, I understand, we are on the same page. But let me ask you, did you really, but really think about what it means?
I, personally, came from an environment where almost nobody cared about what it means. And I believe that it is not just me. Most of us, people, wake up every morning and just routinely do what we need to do, then we go back to sleep and that is it. People forget about happiness and joy, they get consumed by negative moments or experiences throughout the day. It is easier to be miserable than happy. You know why? Because happiness is state of mind and this my friend, you have to develop. You have to train your brain as you train your muscles in a fitness center. You have to educate your mind about how to do it. Of course, I am not talking about 5 years of college and you are good to go. I am talking about a daily basis, every single day reminding yourself that your happiness is only in your hands and nobody else can do anything about that. You do not wake up to good or bad day, it is up to you If you make it good or bad.
I think many of us have seen movie Secret. When I got in touch with this material for the first time, I didn’t believe that it can have any positive impact on me. Actually, I am one of the biggest non-believers of any kind. But because I was in a situation where I literally kissed the floor, that’s how down I felt at that time, I gave it a try. And you know what, after I have seen it for over 30 times, and that was the moment when all my little study of those things kind of took off, I somehow started to believe that our life doesn’t amount to what has happened, what environment we are from, what we have experienced. All these “obstacles’’ mean SO WHAT? Do you want to complain about your family, your financial situation, your spouse? After you finish complaining let me know If anything has a change in a positive in your life. I know, and with my funny age and maybe little innocent stupid look, but trust me, I know that life can beat you down the way you really think there is no way up. Everybody has their story, maybe yours is twice as bad as mine. But this doesn’t matter anymore. It happened, you cannot change it, it is done.
I truly believe that anyone of us is unique. That everybody can be wealthy, have a great relationship, have a job that he or she loves. Everything is state of mind. Changing your life and your thinking is not easy, it is very challenging. But at the end, it is so worth it. Sometimes we just need little reminding of those good things we have gotten in life. If you think that I got all this and I am cool, let me be honest with you. I have bad days, I can get crazy, moody, angry. Being positive doesn’t mean you have to smile every day like a retarded clown. For me, the success of positive thinking comes when I am down and I still manage to take it easy and not got overwhelmed. Negative things happen in our lives daily, most of the time it is not in our hands. My point is that as much as we try every day to overcome these obstacles, we will eventually attract the good and the best we deserve because we try so hard.
My name is Silvia and I teach people how to turn their pain into power. My personal struggle inspired me to help people in living a powerful and fulfilling life which they create and control. You can find out more of my story by visiting my personal page www.silviaturon.com. Also, there is a FREE gift waiting for you. See you there!