You were born awesome and you carry certain uniqueness within. You have a different personality and that’s what makes you special. The thing is that you don’t always act how you should or want. That’s normal, we are humans and a certain tolerance of imperfection is completely ok. But when it comes a time and you feel you are not satisfied with yourself, with your behavior, the way how you act, it’s time for a change.
I would like to point out on good parts of your personality and how little improvement can completely change your life and life of others as well.
Be grateful. I cannot stress this enough and express how important is it to be grateful and thankful in life. There is so much you can appreciate every single day. The problem with some people is that they often focus on negative what attracts negative whether they want or not. Be aware of that. Instead, every night before you go to bed, recap every little positive moment that has happened to you throughout the day. I guarantee you are going to find it. Feeling of gratitude is so strong and powerful. It literally shifts your thinking and give you more and more positive energy which you can share with others.
Be honest. Honesty is one of the most important things you should carry with you everywhere you go. Being honest to others creates trust and respect. You want to be respected in your own community and by people you love. Give people a reason for trust. Being honest to others and to yourself will make you feel much better and satisfied. Most of the time people appreciate openness in others what creates positive vibes and good atmosphere. There is an exception known as a white lie, but you need to be very careful about that. There is a thin line between the real lie and the kind lie, as I call it. The lie which you use when you don’t want to hurt your loved ones.
Kill with kindness. Unfortunately, we are not able to control others and sometimes their behavior towards us is not right. From my own experience, If somebody treated me with disrespect, I did the same to them. After all, I didn’t feel satisfy with my reaction. Why is that? I have realized that because other don’t know how to treat their surroundings doesn’t mean I have to be a copycat. If someone gives you a hard time without any reason or disrespect you in any way, take a deep breath and remind yourself you are who you are and you know what, you are just awesome. Don’t go on their level, it will not benefit you, smile and simply walk away.
Smile and laugh. Do it so often that your mouth will hurt.A smile is one of the best things you can give others and is completely free of charge. Trust me, we don’t know what people around us are going through. You never know when your smile makes them feel better at least for a minute. And laugh? That is for you, my friend. It is proven that laugh relieves stress and definitely improves your mood. It is the best medicine in the world.
Be helpful. Try to help others every single day. Your kind help can change somebody’s life. Being there for others is one of the most generous things you can ever do for another human being. Remember, sometimes you are the only hope they’ve gotten. We need to help each other in order to live full and happy life.
Before I wrap it up, I just want to say that out there is definitely much more what can be improved. What I described here is really just an icing on the cake. We should try to be a better people every single day. It doesn’t mean we always get good for good, often we’ll experience disappointment with other people. We feel like we are giving them so much but we don’t get the same in return. You know what, that is fine. If they are miserable, negative, mean, disrespectful or anything else, it is their inner fight, not yours. Let it go and focus on yourself.
My name is Silvia and I teach people how to turn their pain into power. My personal struggle inspired me to help people in living a powerful and fulfilling life which they create and control. You can find out more of my story by visiting my personal page www.silviaturon.com. Also, there is a FREE gift waiting for you. See you there!