I cannot count how many times I have wondered what is the key to happiness? What are these essential ingredients to become genuinely happy? To be honest with you, it took me some time, learning and realizing that to live a fulfilled life, it is not a matter of circumstances, it is a matter of us.
Quite frankly, it was a pleasant surprise to find out that we can change our lives, we can reach our dreams and truly be happy. You and I have the ability to live the life we decide for, and no circumstances or people can change it if we don’t allow them to.
Now you maybe think, “But come on, everyone wants to live a happy and beautiful life, then why so many people don’t?”
Your life is a result of three things. Your strategy, your story and state of mind you are at. In the next few lines, I am going to explain to you how this affects your life and why you are not living the life you always wanted but dislike it instead.
1. Your strategy
If you don’t like the life you live now and want to transform it, you need the right strategy. But I am not talking about listening to your doctor who is 30 pounds overweight but giving you advice on how to live healthy and lose weight as well. Of course, this can’t have results you want.
The problem you deal with may be that you are listening wrong people and then get frustrated because it simply doesn’t work. You need to have a plan, but it must be something with real results. Whether you want more money, better quality intimate relationships or lose weight, find the person who got results you want and duplicate what they have done.
2. Your story
A big part of your success is the story you keep telling yourself. Everyone has a story based on things they have adopted in the past or heard throughout the lifetime. If your parents kept telling you that money is wrong, and only cruel people have money, you might grow up with a belief that having money is painful. You have adopted this mindset, and you will sabotage every opportunity in life to gain wealth and live more comfortably.
Money, happiness, love, luxury. None of these things are bad if we don’t hurt anyone. Each of us deserves the best life we can imagine. Your life is going to be an outcome of your beliefs, which is your story. If you want to transform your life and get different results, you must let go off your old story and create a new, powerful one. Create a story which is a reflection of your true desires and stick to it.
3. Your state of mind
How do you feel during the day? Are you living each day full of energy and excitement or waiting when the day is going to be over? If you are in a lousy state of mind, your energy is low; your performance is low, and you only feel miserable.
According to Tony Robbins, one of the best teachers who helped millions of people to transform their lives and achieve biggest breakthroughs, we can change our state of mind when we change or physiology. What do I mean by that? You create a seemingly different state of mind if you wake in the morning, jump out of bed, put your sneakers on and head out to run, feeling determine. But imagine that you wake up, roll over and roll over again, somehow sit up, your shoulders down and face saying, “Oh another day.” I think you get a point.
Your posture creates the way how you feel and determines your achievement and success in life.
I hope that this little article gave you an idea what may go wrong in life and helps you if you struggle. What you have read here are not only my thoughts but proven information which helped me and still helping me to change my life and live it to the fullest. Take advantage of it and create happiness for yourself and others.
My name is Silvia and I teach people how to turn their pain into power. My personal struggle inspired me to help people in living a powerful and fulfilling life which they create and control. You can find out more of my story by visiting my personal page www.silviaturon.com. Also, there is a FREE gift waiting for you. See you there!